Is there a reason why many men give up on dating and relationships? Is the dating scene difficult for them?

Also, luck has to do with it. My wife has beennhanging out with 2 friends. My wife always get looked at and hot on. The 3nd girl also has no issues getting dates and is always in and out of new one although she isnt the norrm as she swings both ways. Now, the 3rd woman has very little luck. She has a hard time scoring a date and when she does the guys don't stay long. My guess is the way she dresses as in just nothibg to stand out. O dont hang out with her friends often but the few times that I have she seems very likeable. Very funny, very smart. Not the prettiest but not ugky either. On paper she should not have this hard a time. So we cant figure out what the deal is. Reminds me of some comedian that said some men have this thing where they attract every women while I have the antidote. So, some people simply dont attravt other people even though they arent ugly, bad mannered etc. Its just plays put that way.

I'm been married for 20 years now but there was a time when I had a very hard time dating. Long story short the issie was me but, I worked on it and now looking back it all makes sense and does.seem.cery silly. Anyways thats a storu for another day that is not part of your question. The thing is that you can only fail so many times before you give up. There was a time when I did just that. O got tired of being turned down or the vetu annoying getting a date only for them to cancel at the very last minute. There came a point when I said to myself ok I'm just burned to a crisp on this so I'm going tomtake a break all together. I'm not even going to try. Not only that I'm going to completely avoid the whole thing. And I did. Then agter I graduated college I moved to a different dtate so I said well, maybe its time to try again but this time I'm going to study the subject matter like I did in college. There I discovered of my issues and thats when things turned better. I met my wife and here we are. The thing too is that I'm stubborn about gettiny something so I'm often know to keep on going when everyone else already given up. Not on everything ofcourse but often. So I can see how people would completely give up on dating. I gave up for a while but becaue.O'm.stuborn I gave it another go. Anyone else wouldn't

One thing I observed when studying dating is that we really arent thought how to date. We also arent though what is a relationship l, what it means to be married etc. Its no wonder so many relationships fail. They simply don't know what they should be doing. One person is expecting one thing and another person thinks is something else and that aint going to.work. same thing with dating. How do you date? Thats bot an easy question to answer. Since nobody teaches you and are left for you to figure it out we stimble a lot.

Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun... A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying. One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever.. We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc If u want pics of her text me.

Age plays a.huge factor too. Your wants and need change with age meaning that getting turned down in highschool seems like a big deal in highschool but as an older adult the reason given are silly and childish. People look for different things at different ages. Meaning dont give up because you were not the number 1 choice when young. That wqs a different time.

Dating on general is difficult. My evidence is that its a multi billion dollar industry. If it was easy there wouldnt be so many books, podcasts, coaching, apps etc etc.Of you are having a hard time in tue dating wolrd you arent alone. In fact you would be the norm.